What is the most enlightened way to deal with our problems and the opposition in our lives? Should I be grateful for them?
Grateful? No, because gratitude increases what you’re grateful for. But to recognize their value and their role makes the need for them to exist, extinct.
Every hardship brings a benefit. Find it and be grateful for that, yes. When the benefit of a hardship increases, the hardship decreases. To find the unobvious hiding behind the obvious is a game of masters. Let us learn to play that.