The Seer’s Daughter, Jaylene, is having a very stressful time in her second year of college as she is required to do a difficult medical terminology course and the memorizing of anatomy and cellular biology. She has difficulty sleeping and has panic attacks. Below is the letter her mother wrote her.
To Jaylene
Honey, if you ever feel like you’re having a panic attack again, read this please:
1. You are being taught how to succeed — not how to fail.
You are being taught how to be abundant — not impoverished.
With these goals in mind, if I see you heading in an opposite direction. I’ll throw a little hissy fit if that’s what is needed.
2. But I will never abandon you or leave you to cope with things that you’re not ready for, or supported with. I will never throw you out there (as is often the case with many other parents, when their kids leave high school) and let you sink or swim, because I will never let you sink.
I will be there when you’re afraid, or sad or feeling lost. Or when you’re overwhelmed. You just need to tell me.
I supported one of your sisters till she was almost forty, by being there when she needed me, financially and in every other way — do you honestly think I would leave you to fail Darling?
Be at peace and just walk through stressful times one step at a time — I’ll always be there holding your hand my Dearest Love.
“Success is measured by how you live, not by the results of what you do. You are therefore already a success.”
Debbie says
💙 This
Jana says
Dear Jaylene, maybe if you like coloring, there are some coloring books for the cell biology and anatomy.
Thank you dear Almine for your endless support
Here are some links:
https://www.amazon.ca/Anatomy-Coloring-Book-4th/dp/0321832019/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_14_img_0?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=6MEM4A1A11AM8B9WYA02
and for the cell biology:
https://www.amazon.ca/Biology-Coloring-Book-Robert-Griffin/dp/0064603075
Dhani says
To Jaylene,
Yes, it’s like that in science. They just pour all this information into you, all at once. I did science in school, and I found that walking while I memorized helped. Putting some muscle action into the memorization helped me a lot. Sort of like muscle memory recall. I used to draw things around the name to remember them too. A picture is better sometimes. 😉
I used to draw the organs and their functions – recalling by picturing it.
I’m sure you are pretty good at remembering all that terminology or else you would not have gone into nursing. Also, think of all the people you will be helping by learning all this stuff now.
Big hugs little sister.
xxoo
Dhani
Ailsa Mclean says
Oh how beautiful! THANK YOU for sharing your loving words with usdear Almine. We can say similar words to ourselves now, when we are afraid.
Teena says
Such a heart felt message and reminder to never give up on our children/grandchildren. Our love and support can encourage them to persevere with their goals in a way that works for them. Sweet blessings and love to you Almine and your most precious daughter Jaylene.
Teena Roush says
This is truly a heartfelt beautiful reminder to never give up on our children/grandchildren. Our love and support encourages them to persevere with their goals and find a way that works for them.
Vanessa says
Almine, they are truly blessed to have You as their Mother….
Tears roll from my eyes
Deeply greatful for this post..
I feel all parents Mothers and Fathers will benefit from your words
I know I have as I play the role of a single parent to a teenage son
My love is eternal
My lo
Dhani says
So loving. Beautiful.
Laura Mähler says
There is so much love in this letter… my tears are streaming, too! And there is so much relief, a feeling of being totally supported and cared for. Thank you!
Corrien says
Thank you Almine and Jaylene,
You are already a succes what a beautiful refinement of the Self.
Just use the mind as a tool to learn the atomic structure ,not more it is ,and mind can be used in medical language. After that you can go your Self direction.
Make it a playfull study,
warm heart Corrien.
Charlotte says
Unconditional for eternity – Beloved 💗
Audrey says
Motherly love at it’s finest xo
sujata sengupta says
I love it – Thank you Almine – this spoke to me too.
If you like to know – the hissy fit you throw at us too i love – they are so full of deep love
LPGST
Moana says
wow. Tears are streaming reading this. Thank you so much for sharing – touched me deeply. I love you
Alex Murray says
Thank you for posting this.