What does Love mean to 4-8-year-old kids?
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, ‘What does love mean?’ The answers they got were broader, deeper, and more profound than anyone could have ever imagined!
‘When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore…
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too.
That’s love.’ Rebecca – age 8
‘When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.’ Billy – age 4
‘Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.’ Karl – age 5
‘Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.’ Chrissy – age 6
‘Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.’ Terri – age 4
‘Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him,
to make sure the taste is OK.’ Danny – age 8
‘Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and just listen.’
Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)
‘If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.’ Nikka – age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)
‘Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt,
then he wears it every day.’ Noelle – age 7
‘Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.’ Tommy – age 6
‘During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that.
I wasn’t scared anymore.’ Cindy – age 8
‘My mommy loves me more than anybody.
You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.’ Clare – age 6
‘Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.’ Elaine – age 5
‘Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.’ Chris – age 7
‘Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.’ Mary Ann – age 4
‘I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.’ Lauren – age 4
‘When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.’
(what an image!) Karen – age 7
‘Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross…’ Mark – age 6
‘You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.
People forget.’ Jessica – age 8
And the final one: The winner was a four-year-old child whose next-door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, ‘Nothing, I just helped him cry.’
(this made me cry!)Β
Sent to The Seer by Else H. (The Netherlands)
Lynette Ruest says
thank you for this treasure!!!
Charlotte says
Tears of happiness and gratefulness ~ thank you ever so much for sharing ππΌππ»
Ailsa says
So Beautiful!!! Thank you.
Stacey says
πππThank you for thisπππ
πππHappy Valentines Dayπππ
Barbara Kathryn says
These observations of what makes the world go round show us the vibrant inner space that may children have. Here is my favourite among the gems:
βLove is whatβs in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and just listen.β
Tallulah Bleu says
This is so endearing. Thank you!!
Vanessa says
Teary…. These guys are already masters…
I love the stars coming out of the eyes and the toilet humour
This last one very moving deeply touched all are equally valuable and beautiful
Vanessa says
I can’t help but respond twice lol
Holly says
This was so moving. So sweet.
Vanessa says
Omg….. This is so moving…. Teary….
I love this very much….
The different nuances of love
I laughed out loud about the toilet one lol lol lol ππππ
Kelly Wilmeth says
Just warms my heart to the core. Being a dog lover I love the one about a dog licking your face after being left alone all day.
Dhani says
Oh yes, what great reminde of LOVE!! Thank you Else. π