Question:
What benefits or burdens are there to having an active sex life with my spouse? We are both Original Ones and are very dedicated to a life of godhood. Is abstinence preferable?
Almine:
Sex for procreation and for pleasure, is a human concept. So the confusion over this topic is a natural response for godbeings like yourselves.
What is so confusing to you, is that the programs concerning sex, have been so pervasive and so entrenched in human expression, that it has polluted Original Ones with its belief systems. In other words, you’ve come to believe what humans believe, concerning this subject. Let us therefore separate out some of the most emphasized human belief systems about sex. Human’s illusions about sex:
- Sex is an inevitable component of committed partnership.
- Because sex is a “natural” impulse, it should not and cannot be denied or suppressed. Men in particular have over centuries been sanctioned to “stray” because of “undeniable” impulses. Women today are out to prove that they can too.
- Sex in relationship “oils the wheels”; it smooths over problem areas.
- Sex binds couples together, as does having children together. A sexless marriage is therefore regarded as unwhole and vulnerable.
- Sex affirms the desirability of one partner to the other. Not wanting to have sex with the other partner, is therefore interpreted as not being attractive or loved. The confusing of love and sexual attraction, has caused a great deal of dysfunction.
- Sex has been used as lure in courtship; a promise of great things to come, for ages.
Why Godbeings Have Reduced or Absent Sex Drives:
- The Original Ones become balanced in their inner masculine and feminine, regardless of whether they are expressing as male or female. Because sex drive is based on reaching for something outside of oneself to create this balance (that they have already achieved within), Original Ones for obvious reasons have a much reduced or absent desire to have sex with another.
- Original Ones become empathic/telepathic during their reclamation of their godhood. As a result they are inclined to interact sparingly with others, in order to explore and rediscover the authentic expression of their godhood. They are very sensitive to the intermingling of energies with another during sex. If the partner is less conscious, it feels like a loss of energetic resources. If they are more conscious, it could create the feeling of losing oneself in another’s vastness — both these sensations are uncomfortable.
- Sex hormones have been a driving force of attraction and desire. As cosmic life progressed to the Stages of Awakening, hormonal changes reduced sexual attraction — making it non existent for Original Ones and much less for humans. Because humans view it as essential to their self image, lovability, and ability to attract others, they have adopted sexual perversion in order to make up for lack of sexual feeling. This has made sex even less attractive to godbeings who feel polluted by it.
This weekend on Messages for Lightworkers: What Replaces Sex as a Dominant Presence in Life?
Ahhhhh, I’m always relieved when you verify my own feelings. I’ve learned to trust and allow my Heart to guide me. I question my self less, as I, daily, remind myself…. I am not of the human grid. I am the Cosmos.
So very gratful for You Almine and your loving Team Almine. Infinite Love, Blessings and Guidance to all.
Thank you, this is so helpful! LPGST <3
Thank you Almine, yes this helps a lot and would like to know more on this thank you
Much gratitude to Almine for this! I have long wondered about this matter, and my prospects for so called ‘life partnership’ or marriage.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve never wanted to procreate (the idea has always seemed pointless with the number of parentless kids in the world!). But I did buy into the illusion of needing a partner to love and have sex with. Lately though, as I’ve cleared layers upon layers of illusion, I’ve started to question the need for marriage and sex overall.
I’m in my 30s, and at that age when there’s pressure from family and friends for me to ‘settle down and have kids’. Because of that and the need to safeguard my progress on this journey, I now only interact sparingly with family and friends, often with no contact for many months. The fact that I live in a different continent from where I was born certainly makes it easier.
It’s been an interesting journey cultivating joy in my own aloneness, and I’m experiencing a deeper understanding of self love and sovereignty. Somehow I feel like this is a training for my future – if immortality is indeed my destiny, it’s only obvious that letting go of friends and family in their physical form will be an inevitable part of the process.
I have wondered though, whether a life of immortality means I would have to be alone forever. Thankfully, with my access to light family all over the world, I know I’ll never be on my own.
It was inspiring to know that the person who asked the question here is in a relationship with another original one. I don’t know whether that’s on the cards for my future or not, but for now I choose to focus on my journey with love, praise, gratitude and trust that I am not weird, but quite simply the new normal!
Much love to Almine and A Team for posting this. <3
Oh waw so interesting.
What you wrote resonates / is very similar to what I’ve experienced.
Thanks for sharing that.
Love praise gratitude to Almine.
Thank you Almine, for clarifying this. It has been on my mind for some time now and explains so much for me.
Yes. I agree 100% what you are saying. But lately I have felt a pull to explore my sexuality on a deeper level, a level of soul connection to myself.
Not for gratification, purification or a need, simply to explore my own divinity.
Do you feel like that sometimes?
Thankyou for sharing.
Light and love to you Dear Almine. 💜
Thank you Almine – this has been helpful and it is very beneficial. xo
Clarification for me is a Christmas Present!
In love and gratitude
as always
love always
I feel the truth of this. 🌸
Thank you so very much,
I feel so much lighter with this new understanding.
I am so grateful for Almine sharing this,
It is Divine timing!
Much gratitude for clarifying this subject, that I have been wondering about for a very long time. This deep insight lifts a burden from my shoulders.
PLGST 🙏💙💫
Thank you for this truth. The confusion in the past has been a source of problems that I have had to confront many times. Not knowing how to defend myself or be alienated was of a major concern. Knowing oneself and hearing your explanation is a blessing.
I’ve been wondering how this expresses within life for a few months. Thank you for elaborating on this Almine.
Heartfelt Gratitude Almine for this explanation..it has laid bare my way of being and a deep,long held point of view about sex and Human sexuality for a while now..
I thought I was just ‘weird’ in some Sacred way.
Thanks again Almine for affirming one’s True Beingness.
Infinite gratitude! Impeccable timing also! LGPST
I can agree with this as well. Over the course of my life, I have had sex with many people in my early 20’s and then have gone for many years of not having sex. I probably have not had sex more than 300 times in my 33 yrs of adulthood. What I have notice now, is when I exchange sexual fluids with a man, I dream of their deepest, darkest secrets and I if say something that triggers their nervous system, I can feel it jolt my nervous system, even though they are not aware this conditioned pattern.
I have also had interesting dreams of a ritual in the Himalayas with Shamanic Tibetian Nuns in ceremony, releasing the female sexual fluids into the earth. I was honored to witness such healing for Gaia.
Sexual fluids are powerful, they carry consciousness to create life and if your partner is in a bad mood, angry, sad, or anything other than uplifting, I would refrain from receiving their sexual fluid in my body. The female body is the container and we will experience on deep, subtle levels of what is being deposited in our bodies.
Also, I would like to note that if you are wanting to grow a baby, it would be wise action to have both the man and woman to balance out their body, mind, emotions and spirit first. If you are out of balance, you will be growing a human inside of you that is more out of balance than yourself. Does this make sense?
Blessings,
Leah
Almine…I am delighted this has been cleared up more…this has come up for me in a big way for me to revisit…I feel you hit the nail on the head !
Thank you Almine, it explains a lot.
Thankyou beloved Almine. This has explained so much to me and answered a question I have been wanting to ask for so long!!
Thank you for providing this deep insight, Almine💗